Almost all parents sooner or later face the naive question of their child "Where do children come from?" So that this question does not take you by surprise, it is better to prepare in advance for such a conversation in order to explain the essence of its origin to the child as easily and easily as possible.
Instructions
Step 1
Answering such questions that your baby asks you, start with a story telling how you met your dad, tell him about the feelings that you experienced. Love should be central to this story. Emphasize the baby's attention on the fact that he is the fruit of the tenderness and love of dad and mom.
Step 2
When talking about exactly how conception occurs, call on comparisons and images for help, and also use illustrations from the children's encyclopedia. Your story, for example, can be built in the following vein: “When a woman and a man love each other, they decide to live together in the same house, equipping it, creating coziness. They start to think about having a baby. You already know that a woman and a man are arranged differently, that they have special organs called sex organs. Thanks to them, mom and dad have a child. When a woman and a man love each other, they give each other caresses and kisses. They want to conceive a child, so fluid comes out of dad's penis with lots of tiny sperm. This fluid enters the mother's vagina. In my mother's uterus - a small sac, there lives a round "cell" - an egg. At the moment when one of the "tadpoles" of the father meets the mother's egg, they merge, and a very small baby appears. It will grow in your mom's tummy for nine months. When a child wants to be born, he goes out through a small crack in his mother's body, which becomes wider at this moment to let the baby in. " Such explanations are quite accessible to the child, and for a long time his curiosity and interest will be satisfied.
Step 3
If, for some reason, you think it's not time to talk about it yet, postpone the explanation. You can tell your child that you still need time to think. Choose a better moment. But you should not completely evade the conversation, because then your baby will probably think that it is not good to be interested in sexual issues, and in the future he may have various complexes. If you feel uncomfortable, invite your child to watch an illustrated children's encyclopedia of these issues together.
