The role of a father is important for every child, be it a boy or a girl, but, of course, a father's upbringing is indispensable for a boy. After all, a boy is a future man and an example of male behavior, responsibility and strength is extremely important for him. Statistics show that a boy who has grown up without a father more and more often has antisocial inclinations. Such children often become drug addicts, and even criminals.
Many fathers think that while the child is small, the mother should raise him. But this is not the case. Of course, no one says that the father should feed and swaddle, but play and pay attention to the baby in every possible way from the cradle. Thus, creating a strong bond between father and son from infancy.
In the period from a year to three, the baby's social circle is small, it is he and the mother, so the father should be nearby. The child, feeling the moral strength of the pope, grows up calm and balanced.
After three years, the child begins to look for the boundaries between can and not, go beyond what is permissible and try to be independent. At the same time, he becomes moody and disobedient. And here, dad will be tougher than mom, draw a line that cannot be crossed and quickly pacify the prankster.
From three to six years old, the boy is like a sponge, absorbing and imitating his father's behavior. It is very important that during this period the father was near, it is at this age that the formation of his character begins.
At 6-7 years old, the boy is already becoming a little man. Here men's skills and habits are already being instilled. Mom fades into the background, because she cannot understand male problems or advise on how to act in a given situation, because this is their male world with dad. At this age, it is best to send the child to any section of wrestling, karate and the like.
Teenage years
The teenage period is very important. Here, a child, or rather, already a teenager - a man, is trying to get out of parental control. And here even the most wonderful father will find it difficult to maintain a good relationship with his son. At this age, children perceive everything too sharply, this is the time for solving global, as it seems to them at that moment, problems. It is at this stage of the relationship that what the father was like before, how the relationship developed in childhood, plays an important role. From here it will become clear whether the teenager will obey his father.
An authoritative and strong father, he will cope in any situation. Whereas a mother at this age is usually powerless.
