A wedding is a responsible event for which the newlyweds prepare in advance. There are cases when, shortly before the event, the desire to tie the knot disappears.
Causes of discord
A wedding can be upset because of a breakdown in relationships and a loss of understanding between young people. Frequent quarrels, betrayal are the reason for the separation. The desire to cancel the wedding may be present on one of the parties or be a mutual decision.
Consider your decision
Before you tell such news to your second half, and then to all relatives invited to the wedding, you need to think it over, weigh the pros and cons, assess the severity of the problem. Perhaps such a desire is only a temporary phenomenon, and when the storm subsides, everything will fall into place. Don't make hasty decisions that you regret later. In the process of preparing for the wedding, everyone takes part: parents, friends, young people themselves. It will be unpleasant for everyone to know that such an event is canceled at the very last moment, when a limousine, a cake, a dress and rings are ordered.
Say the wedding is canceled
If rejection of the wedding is a deliberate and balanced decision, then it must be done with dignity and openness. It is unacceptable to transfer your decision through third parties. You need to tell about everything as soon as possible, it makes no sense to delay. Better to find a calm environment for this. The first person to know that the wedding is canceled must be the bride or groom. Such a decision must be communicated at a personal meeting and certainly take care of the arguments explaining the reason. Perhaps, during a one-on-one conversation without strangers, it will be possible to find a compromise, to explain. The bride may refuse to marry out of sheer excitement. She had been waiting for this event all her life, mentally scrolling in her head how everything should go, what dress would be. Things don't always go smoothly when preparing for a wedding. Due to the minor problems that have arisen, stress may come the desire to cancel everything and do without celebration. In such a moment of despair, it is necessary to calm down and revive the bride, to say that everything will be in order and at the highest level, as she dreamed.
Settlement of the situation
Excitement is not the worst reason for not getting married. Finding out unpleasant facts from the past of the groom or bride can serve not only as a reason for rejecting a wedding, but also for parting. This situation is doubly offensive, because too many people have witnessed sad events. In addition to the fact that you will have to heal mental wounds, you will need to communicate with the invitees and wedding organizers. The party that initiates the cancellation of the wedding must take all the trouble to resolve the current situation: it will be necessary to refuse the services of a registry office, a photographer, a restaurant, a hairdresser.
