The husband left the family. Of course, this event disrupts the usual way of life. A huge number of emotions and feelings arise, which can have a significant impact on your further actions.
Instructions
Step 1
Calm down and sort out your feelings. In any case, the choice will be yours alone. Regardless of what your husband did or how others reacted to it, only you will have to decide what to do next.
Step 2
Answer yourself to the questions: "What suited you in a joint marriage, what did you dislike in your relationship with your husband, do you want to continue your life together, do you love him?"
Step 3
Remember and analyze your behavior. Then conclude either in favor of continuing the family relationship, or in favor of their final break.
Step 4
Be sure to read and reflect on whether you can forgive cheating. Despite the words and decisions, men and women often do not forgive such mistakes, only exacerbating the contradictions and turning their future life into a boring pastime, often for the sake of children.
Step 5
Create a comfortable environment for the children, if any. Do not try to hide what happened from them, but do not make them a "vest for tears." When caring for the children, do not shy away from making a decision. Ultimately, the health and well-being of your entire family depends on it.
Step 6
If you decide to return your husband, take action immediately. Check with him and analyze all the reasons that were the basis for leaving. Try to weigh your conclusions against your life outlook, goals and attitude. Most likely, in the future communication with your husband, you will have to master the art of compromise.
Step 7
If you made the decision to start a new life without him, forgive him and thank him for the happy moments of your marriage. Get a divorce and look at life with optimism and a smile.
Step 8
Consider the current situation not as a punishment of fate, but as the good opportunities provided by it to achieve your goals and gain a fulfilling and happy life.
