When a child reaches adolescence, parents often face a problem such as rudeness from the child. How to be?
Instructions
Step 1
During adolescence, the child realizes himself as an adult and expresses this in different ways, including with the help of raised tones, insolence and rudeness towards parents. The teenage period is not endless and will definitely end, so be patient and wait for the storm to subside. The main thing is to pay attention to your behavior and analyze how you address the child, perhaps this is just a reaction to the commanding tone of the parents.
Step 2
Forget about the fact that you can command a teenager, and he will unquestioningly follow all your orders. Now the child will demand a different attitude towards himself, it is necessary to communicate with him on an equal footing, as with an adult. Therefore, instead of direct demands, it is better to learn how to negotiate with your teenager.
Step 3
If the child begins to raise his voice at you, you should not respond in kind, yelling over each other, you will not achieve anything. If the child begins to show aggression, just leave the room without listening to the end, or calmly walk up, hug the child, joke how funny he looks when he yells. Such an unpredictable reaction on your part will make him calm down, come to his senses.
Step 4
Your communication with your child should be on an equal footing. Adolescents are annoyed by the excessive manifestation of tenderness and lisping. They try to show their independence and independence in various ways. Therefore, talk to your child like an adult and he will not go over to a cocky rude tone to prove his worth and importance.
Step 5
When making important decisions regarding the whole family, ask the teenager for opinion, advice, encourage him to take part in family councils. In this case, impudent behavior and a rude tone will be inappropriate, the child understands that in this situation it will look childish, so he will try to give himself seriousness and talk calmly.
Step 6
Do not criticize or humiliate your child, especially in front of strangers. If a conflict situation arises, stop, it is better to discuss it alone with a teenager. If the skirmish begins in front of the audience, pull yourself together and leave.
Step 7
Don't overreact when your teen is rude. Its purpose is to provoke your reaction. If your behavior remains calm, this method of attracting attention will disappear.
