“What we have, we do not keep; when we lose, we cry.” How much sad truth is in this folk wisdom! This fully applies to love. How often a woman, having quarreled with her lover over some trifle, misunderstanding, unfounded jealousy, then bitterly regrets her intemperance! But it’s too late, there was a gap between them. Is it possible to restore the old relationship, return the love that has passed away?
Instructions
Step 1
To return to your former love, you need to objectively and impartially evaluate your own behavior, to understand where you were wrong. Alas, many of the fairer sex, because of their emotionality, prefer to feel sorry for themselves and shift all responsibility to the other side. Especially if the girlfriends chorus pick up: "All men are bastards!" With this approach, you will definitely not return your old love. Therefore, the first rule: do not feel sorry for yourself, but analyze your behavior and realize your mistakes.
Step 2
Having understood them, try to change yourself, learn to be truly attractive. And for this, first of all, get rid of negative emotions that really interfere. You must understand: while you are at the mercy of experiences, you will not learn to receive positive emotions! And this is absolutely necessary in order to change for the better.
Step 3
But how to get these positive emotions if their main source has disappeared - the person you were in love with? We must act according to the principle: "A holy place is never empty." You need to look for (and find) positive moments in literally everything, even in small things. Refresh your wardrobe, get a new hairstyle, learn to cook some exotic dish, find yourself an interesting hobby.
Step 4
If possible, change the environment, go to the resort. Not so much to spin a romance, but above all to regain self-confidence, to feel attractive to men. After all, a woman who is able to receive positive emotions is transforming before our eyes, and men are literally drawn to her. Among them may well be the one she loved.
Step 5
And when you feel and realize that you have actually become a completely different person, you can try to explain to your former lover. If he, too, regrets the breakup, the old relationship will almost certainly be restored. If not, in any case, the changes that happened to you will benefit. At least to find and keep new love.
