Divorce is not an easy test, even when the spouses leave peacefully, without mutual accusations and claims. What can we say about cases when it is accompanied by scandals, litigation! How can a woman survive a divorce?
Instructions
Step 1
Because of their greater emotionality, women are the most difficult to experience divorce. Often, former wives cannot calm down for a long time, they torment themselves with doubts whether it was their fault in what happened. They can lose faith in their feminine attractiveness, deciding that they will never see personal happiness again.
Step 2
Friends and relatives should not be led by the emotions of the ex-wife. Of course, in the beginning you can both sympathize and regret. But everything is good in moderation! If this continues for a long time, a divorced woman may well believe that she is an unhappy sufferer and a failure, and only one step from here to depression.
Step 3
Instead, you need to inspire the woman in every possible way that nothing terrible has happened. Divorce is not death or serious illness. Gone are the days when a divorced woman was condemned for not being able to keep her family together. Divorce should be treated as a very unpleasant incident that has already happened. You can't help matters with worries, you have to live on.
Step 4
A divorced woman should be distracted in every possible way from self-criticism, from constant doubts whether she was to blame for what happened. Yes, almost certainly it was her share of guilt in the divorce. But torment will not fix anything. Advise her not to torture herself, but to draw all the necessary conclusions to avoid an equally sad situation in the future if she remarries.
Step 5
If the divorce happened due to the unworthy behavior of the ex-spouse (immoral lifestyle, alcohol abuse, assault, etc.), the more it is necessary to convince the woman that she is not to blame for anything. Do not pay attention to stupid prejudices like "a bad husband is better than none!" or "the husband will not beat a good wife." This is nonsense.
Step 6
It is very useful to captivate her with something, to help her get positive emotions wherever possible. Literally everything is suitable for this: trips to theaters, museums, exhibitions and concerts, gatherings with friends in a bar, cafe. An excellent tool is shopping, it is guaranteed to distract the fair sex from heavy thoughts. You can advise her to change her image, for example, choose a new hairstyle, update her wardrobe.
Step 7
Finally, instill in the woman the idea of having a non-binding romance. Regardless of whether he goes into a long-term serious relationship or not, he will increase her self-esteem, re-instill in her faith in her attractiveness, charm.
